Right, so I'm back after a two month sabbatical of sorts. Actually I've been sort of pretending to work hard, which takes up most of my time. After all, acting busy is no easy feat. You know, it's so ironic that I'm such a dynamic person, but I'm still confined to a desk job. But luckily, I have the solution for my dilemma----contemplation. Yes friends, I can spend hours in contemplation, in a dream world far away from reality. I like to create my own reality. When I'm contemplating, the look on my face might give the impression that I'm solving a world problem or something, but more often than not, I'm simply imagining a crazy lovemaking session. It's something to do with being a piscean. We kinda border on eccentricity, if not cross it. But that apart, I do wonder what our purpose in life is, in terms of relationships. Wondered actually. I have the answer, which will help solve your relationship issues, if you have any.
I quote God: 'Blessed are the self centered, for they shall truly know me'
Nothing could be closer to the truth than this statement. Straight from the horse's mouth. (Conversations with god, book 1); In case I get sued by the almighty for copyright!
All our lives we keep wondering about the 'significant other' in our lives. Whereas, the truth is that there is only one person who deserves your undivided attention, yourself. This is the divine dichotomy. The key to all relationships is self-focus. Focus on what you are doing, being, having, thinking.
Our obsession with other people's problems and activities is what causes relationships to fail. I don't imply not being there for someone, that one must always be. But my take on this issue can be explained by the old adage----God helps those who help themselves. How can you love another, if you cannot love and respect yourself? Only if you experience the love for yourself can you know what it truly feels to love another. It is then when you can love absolutely and unconditionally. I will continue on this in a bit but till then let this idea sink in. And let me know how much you do/do not relate to it. One advice: try looking at what I said at the spiritual level. I'm sure you'll will grasp the essence of it.
God bless you all
Rohan
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